Cassandra, Arthemis, Perseus exit the church.
Arthemis: Great sermon today, don’t you say, Perseus?
Perseus: I do say! It has always been in the back of my head, but I’m just now realizing what an important part of being a Christian confession is. It is kind of a beautiful thing, the fact that all which weighs on our souls can be lifted by the forgiveness of God; but it seems no easy task to get yourself to confess.
Arthemis: Very true, one must really swallow his pride to make himself confess. You know I might just go to Private Absolution, it would be a great burden lifted.
Cassandra: Why, Arthemis, are you guilty or ashamed about something?
Arthemis: You could say that.
Cassandra: You must’ve done something really despisable, for it to burden you so badly. I tend not to feel shame unless whatever I did was really awful. It’s kind of a flaw of mine, but it’s who I am. I’m just naturally stubborn.
Arthemis: Does that mean that you shouldn’t confess your sins? Even if they are small and don’t necessarily weigh down on you?
Cassandra: Confession is nice because it gives you closure and assures you that your faults are forgiven, as long as you are repentant, but if you don’t feel burdened then I don’t see the need.
Arthemis: What does it mean to confess?
Perseus: Confession literally means to acknowledge. Also to express a truth or reality.
Arthemis: Are your sins not a reality?
Cassandra: They are.
Arthemis: What is more of a truth, the sin, or how the sin makes you feel?
Cassandra: Objectively, the sin, I guess.
Arthemis: So even if the sin doesn’t necessarily burden you, it is worth being confessed, right?
Cassandra: I guess. But we confess during the Divine Service every week. Why would we need to go to private absolution for sins that don’t weigh us down? Isn’t the purpose of confession to hear the words, “you are forgiven,” and have the burden lifted from your heart?
Arthemis: You might be onto something, there. I think we need to establish one thing first, though. Even if the sins don’t burden us, should they be confessed if they should cause us guilt?
Perseus: I think that is one of the greatest sins. We have knowledge of our sins but often refuse to repent of them or even acknowledge them. Our lack of guilt may as well be worse than the sin which causes guilt.
Cassandra: Why?
Perseus: Because, it is guilt and contrition which causes one to seek forgiveness. Without that drive the sins just fester in the soul without any acknowledgment.
Cassandra: Oh, I see. That makes sense. So confession is for confessing what should be confessed, not what feels like it needs to be confessed?
Perseus: That follows.
Cassandra: So that makes sense. My question is, what sins are worthy of guilt–like why should one feel guilty? What constitutes a sin? I am well aware that I can keep asking questions and it will just make us more confused, but this is kind of fun.
Perseus: It truly is. I love these conversations. Well, plain and simple, sin is what is against the Law; that is, the Ten Commandments.
Arthemis: I think we’re trying to figure out what is common among those Ten Commandments. To violate them means to violate what, exactly?
Perseus: Well, God, of course.
Cassandra: I would agree.
Arthemis: You don’t say. But really, there must be a certain principle which is being violated, though!
Cassandra: I’m not quite sure what you’re trying to say, Arthemis.
Arthemis: Alright consider this: One violates a rule, let’s say they cheat on a test. We’ll use small-scale things. When one cheats on a test, he is violating the rules, yes. He is committing an injustice against the student his is cheating off of and the school system. But all of that is given. He is also violating the principle of earning your own benefits. That right there is what I’m looking for.
Cassandra: Oh, I see. Well sin is to violate the law of being kind to your neighbor, and honoring God; all of the Ten Commandments are based on the reverence of God and others.
Arthemis: “Love the Lord your God with all of your heart and mind,” and “Love your neighbor as yourself” are both the major laws. To define the underlying principle of the law as a part of the law is just circular.
Perseus: Arthemis, you’re onto something! The main underlying principle of the Law is simply “love,” so could it be that a sin is simply neglecting to love?
Arthemis: That is a possibility, but why are these things worthy of love?
Perseus: You just love dividing things further and further, don’t you? Can you not be content with the principle of love?
Arthemis: Well, not necessarily why are these things worthy of love, but more like what is worthy of love, and why is that way?
Perseus: I will suggest this: Could it all fall into place given the explanation of the First article of the Creed? “He has given me my eyes, ears, and all of my members…” Since God is the Divine Goodness, and there is no “principle” underlying within him, all that is made by him holds his divinity, which means it is worthy of love.
Arthemis: This is true, so God and all that contains his divinity is deserving of love, for he loves it as well. Meaning that all which is loved by him should be loved too?
Perseus: That follows.
Cassandra: Okay, so a sin is something which violates the love which we are supposed to have for all things of God?
Arthemis: That seems to follow.
Perseus: So contrition should be felt for all sins which violate this love, right?
Arthemis: Should be, yes. But it is often not recognized unless one feels that they have hurt someone, or committed an injustice upon them.
Cassandra: Why is that, you think? Why do some people feel repentant but some just have no guilt?
Perseus: That’s usually linked to psychology; it has to do with empathy. Some people just naturally have more of it than others.
Cassandra: Doesn’t that mean that in order to feel guilty about something you must feel empathy?
Arthemis: Not necessarily. A lot of the times that is the case, but sometimes you feel guilty because you feel that you have gone against your own standard; you feel that as yourself you should know and do better.
Perseus: Like when you are on a team in a sport and because of your continuous error, you lose?
Cassandra: Well, that would be a good example as long as it expresses that the rest of the team really doesn’t care. One can be completely uncompetitive and still feel bad about losing; because you have let yourself down.
Arthemis: So guilt is usually caused by either an engagement of the empathy or a feeling of failure to your own ability.
Perseus: I would say that.
Cassandra: Guilt is merely a feeling. If guilt should be felt for every sin, then it requires the engagement of some kind of emotion. Our feelings aren’t really controlled, though. They’re chemical reactions in the brain.
Arthemis: C.S. Lewis talks about how we can use reason to train the emotions; so that we feel venerance towards soldiers, happiness around children, and guilt when we have done wrong. Like everything in the brain, they can be trained, so does that mean that we still must feel guilt necessarily at all of these sins?
Perseus: No, unless you think that heavy guilt is required in order for one to seek forgiveness.
Arthemis: You are right. Confession means to acknowledge; one does not have to feel anything. I think that is the point. The only reason why we desire forgiveness when we are guilty is so that we ourselves can be relieved and seek closure. Even if we do not feel guilt, it is still good to confess, for all that we confess is a truth. That is why the liturgy has us confess. Do any of us really feel genuinely guilty that we are poor, miserable sinners? I don’t think so, but we still confess the truth of it. It does not require our emotional pain for it to be worthy of confession. But of course, since we have so many, we cover them all in the confession during the service.
Cassandra: I think you are right. None of it has anything to do with guilt or shame, although we technically should feel guilt and shame for violating the love that we are to have. It simply is repeating a truth, a reality. “I have nothing burdening my mind,” is not equivalent to “I have no sins to confess.”
Perseus: True. So is it wrong to make someone feel ashamed for something? So many have told me that it is hurtful and bad to “shame” somebody for their actions.
Arthemis: Would you say that shame is a good or a bad thing?
Perseus: Well it’s not a good feeling, but it plays an important role in one’s life.
Arthemis: Why would you say that?
Perseus: Well, Arthemis, we all want the best, do we not? Although the best may not be the most pleasurable, so we may not immediately desire the best per se, but ultimately it is our goal, no?
Arthemis: That is right.
Perseus: Albeit shame is not a pleasurable feeling, it makes us better willing to be better, right?
Arthemis: Yes.
Perseus: And you would say that sin is bad rather than good, right?
Arthemis: Of course.
Perseus: So, having an unpleasant feeling towards the bad is reasonable, right?
Arthemis: Yes.
Perseus: And what is reasonable is what is good, therefore important, right?
Arthemis: True.
Perseus: So shame is important to one’s life.
Arthemis: I see.
Cassandra: But is it not wrong to judge people?
Arthemis: Depends on what you mean by that, Cassandra.
Cassandra: Well, it is not our place to judge people, right?
Arthemis: Differentiate between judging and criticizing; Only God can judge us for where we go to live the rest of eternity, but to criticize is merely to show people their error.
Cassandra: True.
Arthemis: Criticism, like confession causes someone to acknowledge their wrongdoing so that they can repent too. If anything I think it is the job of any fellow man, as it also promotes what is good.
Cassandra: I see.
Perseus: Arthemis, I have a problem with our idea of the cause of guilt.
Arthemis: What is it?
Perseus: If the cause is empathy, then we would feel guilt for hurting someone in defense, because they do feel just as much pain, but because they seem more deserving, we dismiss their pain. If the cause is then a failure to meet ones own standards, one would feel guilty for silly things like failing a test, or failing to do something right at your own expense.
Cassandra: What do you suggest?
Perseus: I would say that guilt comes from feeling that you are responsible for some kind of injustice.
Arthemis: I can see that, would you care to further elaborate?
Perseus: Let us say that you lose your temper and strike one of your friends, even though they are innocent, and the reason that you lost your temper is inside of your own head. You do not feel bad because it is painful, for if the friend had struck you first, and you struck back, guilt would not even be in you. You feel guilty because you realize that they did not deserve it, and you feel that you have done an injustice. Doesn’t the soul crave justice?
Arthemis: Not always, remember in Plato’s Republic, how Glaucon proposed that if one were to give a man a magic ring which would make him invisible, he would use that to his advantage and go and commit injustices, since he has fear of no consequences.
Perseus: Arthemis, that is just an unjust man, with little moral strength who lacks the ability to feel shame; a sociopath or something. I’m sure that most normal people would feel guilt after doing something horrible, even if there were no consequences. In fact, they would feel the need of consequences; the “Here, you can hit me back,” mentality.
Arthemis: Only a man trained by good reason has that ability, going back to what we said earlier about how guilt is reasonable. But I agree that it comes from a good sense of injustice. One either feels like they need to be punished or they want forgiveness. To put it simply, a good man desires justice.
Perseus: I would agree.
Cassandra: Why does forgiveness satisfy the guilty soul, then? It is not making it even. There is no eye for eye or anything. It definitely doesn’t dismiss the sin, right?
Arthemis: It doesn’t satisfy the want for justice, it relieves one of the fear of consequence.
Cassandra: Explain.
Arthemis: It is an act of mercy. The sin is acknowledged by you through confession, and then the pain that you deserve in return is lifted from your chest. It is a beautiful thing, isn’t it? Jesus Christ is our everlasting life and forgiveness, and because of him, we do not get what we deserve. I think that the gift of confession and absolution is well worth ones pride, wouldn’t you say?
Cassandra: It is. I will remember that when I’m being stubborn, Ha!
Perseus: It is truly amazing. Yet another example of how the passions lead us astray unless guided by Reason. We are ridiculously attached to our own pride and are somehow wired to think that if we break down and confess and receive forgiveness, or in any way own up to our faults we are expressing weakness and decreasing our own self worth. Why would you say that is?
Cassandra: Likely because of the Devil’s work in us, he wants us to do the opposite of what God wants us to do.
Arthemis: It is because sin is such a big part of our nature; it is a sinful nature, and to confess sin and say that it is wrong is the same as admitting that your own self is wrong.
Perseus: Oh, Arthemis, this conversation was so great, and I have high hopes for it to continue some other time, but I must go. Thank you for the insight.
Arthemis: Dearest Perseus, I do wish that you could stay, but I suppose that all good things must come to an end.
Perseus: Oh, this is no end, just a pause. I must go, but I will talk to you soon! Goodbye, Cassandra!
Cassandra: Goodbye, Perseus! What a pleasure it was!
Cassandra: Arthemis, I have to go help make dinner. We have guests coming tonight. Maybe I will bring this topic up at the table!
Arthemis: You do that for me, Cassandra.